Trapped in a Car with a Stranger: Rideshare Safety Tips Every Woman Needs

Rideshare Safety: Staying Vigilant in a Vulnerable Situation

Rideshare safety is crucial because, while these services make transportation more convenient, they also create vulnerable situations, especially for women. Riding alone with a stranger always carries risks, regardless of the driver’s rating or gender. Danger doesn’t discriminate, and staying alert is essential to protecting yourself.

I personally would avoid taking a rideshare alone. If I can find another way, whether it’s riding with a friend, a coworker, or using a different mode of transportation. I will. For me, it’s like the difference between walking down a dark alley alone versus staying on a well-lit, busy street. If I can avoid putting myself in that vulnerable position, I will. But if a rideshare is my only option, I would go into it prepared.

A Personal Experience: The Fear of Being Trapped

I know firsthand how terrifying it is to feel powerless in a vehicle with a stranger. There was a moment in my life when I was a passenger, and a man tried to assault me. In that instant, I felt completely trapped. Fear took over, and my mind had so much to process. I couldn’t even grab a thought (there were so many!) My mind didn’t know which one to act on and I froze. That experience shaped the way I think about personal safety and being prepared for the unexpected.

One of the most important lessons I learned is that when you’re caught off guard, panic can set in, making it harder to respond effectively. This is why it’s critical to have a plan in place before you step into a rideshare vehicle.

Rideshare Safety Tips: Be Proactive, Not Passive

If you must take a rideshare, take steps to protect yourself. Don’t assume you’re safe just because you’re using a well-known service. Predators exist everywhere, and a recent case proves just that. A rideshare driver in Denver was sentenced after assaulting multiple women. (Read more about it here.)

Here are some key precautions you should always take:

1. Have a Plan Before You Get In

• Think about worst-case scenarios and what you would do. If something feels off, what’s your exit strategy?
• Know where emergency buttons are located in the app before you need them.
• Keep a self-defense tool accessible, whether it’s a personal alarm, pepper spray, or another legal option in your area.

2. Share Your Ride Details

• Always tell someone where you are going, which service you’re using, and your driver’s details.
• Use the rideshare app’s “Share Trip” feature so a trusted contact can track your ride in real time.

3. Verify Before Getting In

• Check that the car’s make, model, and license plate match what’s in the app.
• Ask the driver, “Who are you here to pick up?” instead of saying your name first.
• Trust your gut. If something feels off, don’t get in.

4. Stay Alert and Put The Damn Phone Down

• Don’t bury yourself in texts or social media. Pay attention to the driver and the route.
• Watch for sudden detours or stops that don’t make sense.
• Pay attention to the driver’s behavior. Are they acting strange? Making inappropriate comments? Taking an unusual route? If anything feels off, be prepared to act.
• Keep the window slightly open so you can call for help if needed.

5. If You Feel Unsafe, Act Quickly

• If you sense something is wrong, speak up. Ask to be let out at a public, well-lit location.
• Call a friend or pretend to be on the phone with someone if the situation feels tense.
• If you are in danger, call 911 immediately.

Final Thoughts

Women have to think about safety in ways that many men never have to consider. Rideshares can be convenient, but they also carry risks. The key is to stay prepared, be aware, and never assume you are completely safe just because it’s a well-known service. Have a plan, trust your instincts, and take control of your own safety.

Have you thought about what you would do if something went wrong during a rideshare? If not, now is the time. Planning ahead won’t guarantee a perfect reaction, but it prepares you better than having no plan at all.

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